Understanding When Family Members Can Be Paid Under the NDIS
One of the most common questions participants and families ask is whether family members can be paid support workers under the NDIS. While many people already receive help from parents, partners, siblings, or other relatives, the rules around paying family members are different from those for registered disability support providers. In most cases, the NDIS expects informal supports provided by family and friends to continue without payment. However, there are circumstances where the NDIS may approve a family support worker NDIS arrangement if it is considered reasonable, necessary, and in the participant’s best interests.

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Understanding Informal Supports Under the NDIS
Before considering paid supports, it’s important to understand how the NDIS views informal supports. These are the everyday supports provided by family members, friends, neighbours, and other unpaid carers who assist participants as part of their existing relationships.
The NDIS recognises that NDIS family carers and informal support networks play an important role in helping participants with daily life, emotional support, and community involvement. For this reason, the Scheme generally expects these informal supports to continue where it is reasonable and appropriate.
Examples of informal supports NDIS may include:
- Support from Parents and Family Members
- Assistance from Friends and Neighbours
- Unpaid Care from Partners or Relatives
- Everyday Help with Daily Activities
While these supports are highly valued, there are situations where the NDIS may approve a family support worker NDIS arrangement if there is strong evidence that paid support is necessary and other suitable options are unavailable.
Can Family Members Be Paid by the NDIS?
The short answer is sometimes.
The NDIS does not usually pay family members to provide supports because it expects informal supports to continue where appropriate. However, paid family carers NDIS arrangements may be approved in specific situations where they are considered reasonable, necessary, and in the participant’s best interests.
Approval is assessed on a case-by-case basis and may depend on:
- Individual Support Needs
- Availability of Other Support Workers
- Participant Safety and Wellbeing
- Evidence Supporting the Request
Every request is assessed against the NDIS support worker rules, so approval is not automatic even when a family member already provides care.
When Might the NDIS Approve Family Members as Paid Support Workers?
Although it’s not common, the NDIS may approve a family member as a paid support worker in certain circumstances where it’s the most appropriate option.
- Exceptional Circumstances
- Rural and Remote Locations
- Cultural or Language Requirements
- Complex Care Needs
- Lack of Alternative Support Options
Situations Where Family Members May Not Be Approved
There are many situations where the NDIS may decide that a family member should continue providing support as part of their existing informal role rather than as a paid support worker.
Approval may not be granted if:
- Suitable Support Providers Are Available
- The Support Is Considered Informal Care
- There Is Insufficient Supporting Evidence
- Another Support Option Better Meets the Participant’s Goals
Benefits of Family Members as Support Workers
In some situations, having a family member provide paid support can offer practical and personal benefits for the participant.
- Familiar Support
- Trust and Comfort
- Cultural and Language Understanding
- Continuity of Care
When approved under the NDIS, these benefits can help participants feel more comfortable while receiving support that reflects their individual needs and preferences.
Challenges of Using Family Members as Support Workers
While this arrangement can work well in some situations, it’s also important to consider the potential challenges before requesting approval.
- Blurred Family Boundaries
- Carer Burnout
- Reduced Participant Independence
- Potential Conflicts of Interest
For many participants, working with an independent support worker can encourage greater independence while helping maintain healthy family relationships.
Evidence That May Support a Family Support Worker Request
If you’re requesting approval for a family member to become a paid support worker, it’s important to provide evidence showing why this arrangement is necessary.
Supporting evidence may include:
- Occupational Therapist (OT) Reports
- Specialist Recommendations
- Behaviour Support Reports
- Evidence That Alternative Supports Are Unavailable
For help preparing supporting documents, read our guide to Preparing Your Paperwork for the NDIS Application Process.
Discussing Family Supports During Your NDIS Planning Meeting
If you believe a family member should be considered as a paid support worker, discuss this during your NDIS planning meeting or plan review. Be prepared to explain your support needs and provide any relevant evidence.
Topics to discuss include:
- Your Current Support Needs
- Why a Family Member Is the Best Option
- Supporting Reports and Evidence
- Changes Since Your Last Plan
For more guidance, see our Preparing for Your First NDIS Plan Meeting.
Alternative Support Options Available Through the NDIS
If a family member isn’t approved as a paid support worker, there are many other supports available through the NDIS that can help you achieve your goals.
Personal Care Supports
Assistance with everyday activities such as personal hygiene, dressing, and mobility.
Community Participation Supports
Support to access community activities, develop social skills, and build confidence.
Supported Independent Living (SIL)
Ongoing support for participants who need assistance to live as independently as possible.
Have Questions About Family Members as NDIS Support Workers?
Here are answers to some common questions about NDIS support worker rules and family-provided supports.
1. Can family members be paid support workers under the NDIS?
Sometimes. Approval is considered on a case-by-case basis and depends on the participant’s individual circumstances and available evidence.
2. Can parents be paid carers under the NDIS?
In some exceptional situations, parents may be approved if the NDIS determines paid support is reasonable and necessary.
3. Can spouses be paid support workers?
It is possible in limited circumstances, but approval is not common and depends on individual needs and evidence.
4. What evidence is needed for approval?
Reports from healthcare professionals, specialists, or other supporting documentation may help demonstrate why a paid family support arrangement is required.
5. Does the NDIS prefer registered providers?
Where suitable providers are available, the NDIS generally expects participants to use formal disability support services.

Need Help Understanding Your NDIS Support Options?
Whether you’re exploring family support worker NDIS arrangements or looking for alternative disability supports, Elmur Community Services is here to help. We provide personalised NDIS services that support independence, wellbeing, and meaningful participation across Perth’s southern suburbs.
Email: info@elmur.com.au
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